Archive for January, 2008

Posted on January 16, 2008 - by Lance Ong

All About Love 3: “Creating Lasting Love”

Many people are able to get into relationships, and many are able to attract partners who are suitable for them, physically and mentally. But for good number of these people, their relationships do not last much more than 3 months! This is a shocking truth of the dating world. Why does this happen? Why can’t we make it last? I’ll give you three reasons:

1. Treating a Relationship as… Show this post

Posted on January 9, 2008 - by Lance Ong

All About Love 2: “Choosing the Right One”

(In the Garden of Eden)

Eve: Adam, do you love me?
Adam: Who else?

Every day you go out, you see hundreds of attractive people. If you’re single, doesn’t it make you wonder how are you ever going to find the one that’s meant for you? As a hot-blooded male in my younger days, I used to think, “I could go with her…or her… or her. Arrgh! How do… Show this post

Posted on January 1, 2008 - by Lance Ong

All About Love 1: “Meeting Someone… Anyone!”

Finally we come to the magical topic of love… one which I’ve been avoiding for a long time because I thought it’s really complicated. But really, it is very simple. After banging my head on the wall for so many years, I’ve finally gained some insight to see past the surface complications – puppy love, teenage crushes, love triangles, adulterous affairs, chemistry, compatibility, trust, idealized love, ‘the One’, third parties, break-ups, make-ups, threesomes, lust instead of love, and a whole plethora of factors which complicate what should be a simple area of life. Show this post