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Posted on June 23, 2008 - by Lance Ong

How Could You Love a Zombie?

In our last story, we heard about the engineer, Tabo, and his one hundred sex dolls…. How could someone love an inanimate object that almost resembles a zombie in sleeping state? This article delves into the mind of the doll user, to understand what drives their obsession. How could they love a zombie?

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Posted on June 14, 2008 - by Lance Ong

Evolving Sexual Preferences

Evolving Sexual Preferences
This is a relatively new social trend, where certain men are choosing artificial women as lovers over real women. You might think only a fool would do so, but take a look at these videos and see why these ’silicone honeys’ have such haunting appeal. Show this post


Posted on January 16, 2008 - by Lance Ong

All About Love 3: “Creating Lasting Love”

Many people are able to get into relationships, and many are able to attract partners who are suitable for them, physically and mentally. But for good number of these people, their relationships do not last much more than 3 months! This is a shocking truth of the dating world. Why does this happen? Why can’t we make it last? I’ll give you three reasons:

1. Treating a Relationship as… Show this post


Posted on January 9, 2008 - by Lance Ong

All About Love 2: “Choosing the Right One”

(In the Garden of Eden)

Eve: Adam, do you love me?
Adam: Who else?

Every day you go out, you see hundreds of attractive people. If you’re single, doesn’t it make you wonder how are you ever going to find the one that’s meant for you? As a hot-blooded male in my younger days, I used to think, “I could go with her…or her… or her. Arrgh! How do… Show this post


Posted on January 1, 2008 - by Lance Ong

All About Love 1: “Meeting Someone… Anyone!”


Finally we come to the magical topic of love… one which I’ve been avoiding for a long time because I thought it’s really complicated. But really, it is very simple. After banging my head on the wall for so many years, I’ve finally gained some insight to see past the surface complications – puppy love, teenage crushes, love triangles, adulterous affairs, chemistry, compatibility, trust, idealized love, ‘the One’, third parties, break-ups, make-ups, threesomes, lust instead of love, and a whole plethora of factors which complicate what should be a simple area of life. Show this post


Posted on December 8, 2007 - by Lance Ong

Competing With Others


Something about the frantic pace of today’s society… people are always trying to get ahead of one another. You can hear them say, “Outdo the other guy; be better than them… this is a dog-eat-dog world.” Some people feel that they have to prove themselves to the world. To show that they have what it takes to be great. Only then can they feel good about themselves. So they work doubly hard, constantly comparing their success to that of others. “I can run faster than you, I’m more capable, more knowledgeable, richer, better-looking, and even my dog is cuter than yours…” Show this post



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