Philosophy ya makhalidwe

Moyo umaoneka ngati mayeso osalekeza a amene tikukhala. Vuto lililonse; chopinga chilichonse ... chomangidwa kuti chiyese malire a moyo wanu. Zosankha zomwe mumapanga zimapanga khalidwe lanu ndikukhudza tsogolo lanu. Kukwaniritsa zomwe tingathe kuchita kumafuna kuti tipange zisankho zoyenera. Ndipo njira yabwino kwambiri yopangira zisankho zoyenera ndikukhala ndi chikumbumtima choyera komanso makhalidwe abwino zomwe zikutsogolera zochita zanu. Pakukula makhalidwe abwino, pali malamulo enieni achikhalidwe oti mutsatire, koma ofunika kwambiri ndi omwe mumadziikira nokha. Malingaliro otsatirawa ndi malangizo okhazikitsa malamulo anu momwe mungasankhire kukhala moyo wanu.

Lamulo Labwino: Chitirani Ena Zimene Mungafune Kuti Ena Akuchitireni

Kodi mumaona ngati mumumwetulira munthu, mwina adzakumwetuliraninso? Ngati mumunyengerera munthu ngati kuti akunena kuti 'hey friend', mudzakumwetuliraninso kangapo? Ili ndi dziko lobwezerana. Mumalandira zomwe mumapereka. Ndipo monga momwe amanenera… Chikondi chimabala Chikondi, Chidani chimabala Chidani. Chifukwa chake ngati mukufuna kuti dziko lapansi likuchitireni bwino, choyamba lichitireni bwino. Yamikani kwambiri, m'mawa wabwino, ndikhululukireni, ndipo pepani. Bwezerani zomwe muli nazo ngongole, tsegulani zitseko zambiri kwa ena, ndikuthandiza okalamba ambiri kuwoloka msewu. Chofunika kwambiri, nthawi zonse khalani aulemu, musavulaze ena, ndipo nthawi zonse nenani zoona. Izi ndi mfundo zoyambira zomwe sizimachoka m'njira yachikhalidwe.

Mukhoza kupewa mavuto ambiri potsatira Lamulo la Golide. Ndikukumbukira usiku wina, ndinali nditakhala pa McDonalds panja mu Orchard Road ku Singapore. Nditamva kugunda kwa thireyi ikugunda pansi. Pafupi mamita asanu ndi limodzi, amuna awiri akuluakulu a mtundu wa Caucasus, anakhota mwamuna waufupi komanso wonenepa wa ku Hawaii. Amuna onse atatu ali ndi zaka pafupifupi 20. Zikuoneka kuti analephera kugonja pakhomo, choncho anagundana ndipo thireyi inagwa. Ndikumva mawu onyoza, ndipo anayamba kukankhana. Ndikawerenga kukankhana, 1.. 2.. 3.. kenako anakangana. Mwanjira ina, mwamuna wa ku Hawaii anagwira khosi la mwamuna wina wa ku Caucasus, n’kumugwedeza mutu wake kaye m’mphepete mwa nyumbayo! Pamphumi pake panatseguka, ndipo bala limayamba kutulutsa magazi. Mwamuna wina wa ku Caucasus anati, “Imani! Imani! N’chifukwa chiyani mukufuna kutipha, mwamuna?”

Sindingakhulupirire kuti zonsezi zinayamba chifukwa cholephera kupereka mpata pakhomo, komanso kusapepesa chifukwa cha cholakwikacho. M'malo mwake, anasankha kukankhirana ndi kuopsezana kuti amenyane. Ndiye mukuona, Chilichonse chimene mupereka, chidzakubwererani, champhamvu kakhumi"Ukandikakamiza, ndikukankhira mwamphamvu. Ukandimenya, ndikukankhira." Amuna awa analola kudzikuza kwawo kulepheretsa mgwirizano wamtendere. Akanangopepesa ndikupereka ndalama zolipirira chakudya cha wina ndi mnzake?

Monga mukudziwira, izi si zachilendo. Nthawi zambiri, kungoyang'ana munthu kungayambitse ndewu. Kapena kukankhira wina pamzere. Kapena kulanda malo oimikapo magalimoto a wina. Kapena kuyendayenda m'mbuyo. Kapena kuwunikira kuwala kwa galimoto yanu chifukwa cha mkwiyo. N'zomvetsa chisoni tikalola mkwiyo wathu kutigonjetsa. Monga momwe amanenera mu filosofi ya Chibuda, mkwiyo ndi mtundu wa gehena. Chimodzimodzinso umbombo, nsanje, chilakolako, ndi chidani. Zonse zimaipitsa mtima ndi malingaliro. Zimasokoneza mtendere wamumtima womwe ungapangitse moyo wanu kukhala wabwino kwambiri. Choncho musanachitepo kanthu komwe mungadandaule nako, dzifunseni kuti, “Kodi ichi ndi chomwe ndikufuna kubweretsa m'moyo wanga?” Mukangochita zimenezo, mukupereka chilolezo kwa Chilengedwe kuti chichitepo kanthu, kuchulukitsa ndi khumi, ndikubwezerani kwa inu. 

Ngati munyoza munthu wina, anthu ena khumi adzakunyozani. Ngati mwabera mayi wachikulire ndalama zokwana $500, nthawi ina mtsogolomu, mudzataya $5000. Momwemonso, ngati mupereka $200 chifukwa cha mtima wanu wabwino, $2000 idzapezeka kuti mubwezeretsedwe. Mwina kudzera mu bizinesi yanu kapena mwadzidzidzi mu lotale. Ili ndi Lamulo la Chilengedwe Chonse: Chilichonse chomwe mupereka, chidzakubwererani, champhamvu kakhumi. Chifukwa chake tsatirani Lamulo Lalikulu: Chitirani ena zomwe mukufuna kuti ena akuchitireniNdipo mungayembekezere kuti moyo udzakuchitirani momwe mukufunira.