Matsenga Akulota Zazikulu

Ngati simumalota mokwanira, mumaphunzira zinthu zazing'ono. Chomvetsa chisoni n'chakuti anthu samakhala moyo wokwanira kuti akwaniritse zomwe angathe. Nthawi zambiri, kupulumuka kumawadya. Kupeza ndalama zokwanira kuti akhale ndi moyo wabwino kumatenga nthawi yawo yonse. Ndipo pamapeto pake, sakhala ndi tanthauzo komanso kukhutira m'miyoyo yawo.

Chavuta ndi chiyani apa? Kodi anthu omwe ali ndi ntchito, ndalama zokhazikika, komanso moyo wabwino, amathabe kupeza miyoyo yawo yopanda tanthauzo komanso phindu? Kodi sayenera kukhala osangalala chifukwa ali ndi ndalama zobwera; amatha kugula ndikuchita zomwe akufuna?

Dziwani kuti kukhala ndi moyo wokhutira ndi chimwemwe sikutanthauza kungopeza ndalama zambiri, kusangalala ndi zinthu zapamwamba, komanso kukhala ndi nthawi yopuma ... ndi gawo limodzi chabe la izi. Gawo lina ndi lomwe anthu ambiri amaphonya: Ndilokhudza kukwaniritsa cholinga cha moyo wanu ndikuchitapo kanthu tsiku lililonse. Izi zimapangitsa chilakolako chomwe chimapangitsa moyo wanu kukhala wofunika. Chimamasula mtima wanu ku ntchito yopanda tanthauzo komanso chimakupatsani tsogolo labwino lomwe mungayembekezere. Tsiku lililonse lidzakhala tsiku latsopano, komwe mumadzuka ndikunena kuti, "Lero ndi tsiku losewera!" Ndipo mumapita, kukapanga ndalama zambiri ndikusewera masewera a moyo. Koma nthawi ino, mumamva cholinga chanu ndipo ndichifukwa chake muli okondwa.

Ndiye kodi mumakwaniritsa bwanji cholinga chanu? Kodi mumadziwa bwanji zomwe mungakhale?

Aliyense wa ife ndi wapadera. Makhalidwe athu, zokhumba zathu, ndi maitanidwe athu pa moyo ndi osiyana. Sindingathe kukuuzani zomwe mukufuna lanu Mphamvu yonse ndi. Mawu akuti 'yanu' amatanthauza kuti muyenera kusankha chomwe kuthekera konse Kodi kumatanthauza chiyani kwa inu – kodi kuyitana kwa moyo wanu n’kutani? Tonsefe tili ndi kuthekera kwachibadwa kapena ukulu womwe uli mkati mwathu… mpaka titauvumbulutsa ndi kuusamalira. Dziwani kuti ndanena kuti 'vumbulutsa', osati 'pezani' chifukwa mukaupeza, ndi chinthu chatsopano komanso chosadziwika. Koma mukauvumbulutsa, ndi kuzindikira kuthekera komwe kwakhalapo nthawi zonse.

Kuti mutulutse kuthekera kwanu, muyenera kukhala ndi lingaliro la zomwe zili. Muyenera kukhala ndi chithunzi chachikulu cha moyo wanu chomwe mwachiganizira bwino. Masomphenya awa amakupatsani komwe mukupita koma sakuwonetsani momwe mungafikire kumeneko. Palibe vuto. Tidzajambula mapu athu pambuyo pake. Kungowona masomphenya awa ndi gawo lalikulu kale pakukwaniritsa cholinga cha moyo wanu. Ndiye mumapeza bwanji masomphenya? Pali njira zingapo, ndipo ndipereka malingaliro ena omwe andithandiza. 

Njira Zopezera Masomphenya 

Nthawi Yolota Yanu

Tengani nthawi yopuma, mwina madzulo kapena kumapeto kwa sabata kuti mukhale ndi nthawi yosangalala yoganizira bwino. Sewerani nyimbo zotonthoza - mtundu womwe umakupumulitsani ndikumasula malingaliro anu. Khalani pansi kapena gonani, chisankho chanu.

Pamene mukupumula, yambani kukumbukira zakale. Yambani muli achinyamata. Kodi maloto anu a ubwana anali otani? Kodi nthawi zonse munkafuna kukhala chiyani? Kumbukirani zimenezo.

Tsopano, pitirizani kupita patsogolo m'moyo wanu monga momwe zakhalira mpaka pano. Poona momwe maloto anu asinthira. Pamene mukuchita izi, mverani ndi mtima wanu maloto omwe amakulimbikitsani kwambiri ndikukudzazani ndi zodabwitsa. Ngati munganene kuti, "Ndizodabwitsa kapena ndizodabwitsa!" Maloto awa ndi mwayi woti muwachite.

Sungani Zolemba

Kukumbukira kumasokonekera pakapita nthawi. Koma mutha kuwona moyo wanu moyenera ngati musunga mbiri yake. Mbiriyi ndi yofunika kwambiri kuti mudziwe chithunzi chachikulu cha moyo wanu momwe chikuchitikira tsiku lililonse. Yambani kulemba buku lanu. Lembani malingaliro anu musanagone. Dziwani zomwe zayenda bwino lero, zomwe mukuyembekezera mawa, ndi zomwe mukufuna kulota usikuuno. Mwa kusonkhanitsa malingaliro anu amkati, mutha kuwona kupita patsogolo kwanu m'moyo, kuwona ngati kusintha kulikonse kwakukulu kwachitika ndipo ngati ndi choncho, kwabwino kapena koipa?

Jambulani zithunzi za anzanu, malo omwe mumapitako, inu nokha momwe mungathere, ndi zina zotero. Zithunzi zimakubweretserani zokumbukira zabwino ndipo ndi zolemba zolondola za moyo wanu. Ngati mugwiritsa ntchito kamera ya digito, mungafune kuyamba kulemba buku pa kompyuta yanu. Kenako mutha kuwonjezera zithunzi, makanema, ndi mawu mu buku lanu. Muthanso kusindikiza buku lanu lokonzedwa bwino kuti mugawane ndi anzanu, kulifalitsa pa intaneti, kapena kulisintha kukhala buku lokumbukira kapena mbiri ya moyo wanu.

Chitani Kusanthula kwa Manambala

Chodabwitsa n'chakuti, kuwerenga manambala ndi gwero labwino la chidziwitso pankhani yokwaniritsa cholinga chanu m'moyo. Kuwerengera njira yobadwira, nambala ya tsogolo, ndi kusanthula mayina kungakuwululireni cholinga chomwe mudachisiya, koma mumtima mwanu, chomwe mudachidziwa moyo wanu wonse. Mungadzipeze mukunena kuti, "Hei ndizowona ... zosangalatsa!"

Yesani Kuyesa Khalidwe Lanu

Yesani mayeso a MBTI (Myers-Briggs Type Indicator). Mutha kupeza mayeso aulere pa intaneti. Kenako tengani buku ili: “Khodi ya Miliyoni “Njira 16 Zomangira Chuma”, lolembedwa ndi Paul B. Farrell. Limatchula umunthu uliwonse mwa 16 wa MBTI, ndi momwe mtundu uliwonse wa umunthu umamangira chuma pogwiritsa ntchito makhalidwe awoawo apadera. Onani!

Pamene mukufufuza njira izi, ndikupangira kuti musunge chiganizo cha cholinga cha moyo. Iyi ingakhale gawo mu dayalo yanu, kapena fayilo yokha. M'menemo, lembani ndikusonkhanitsa zonse zokhudza cholinga cha moyo wanu. Yesani kulemba mawu a masomphenya. Lembani zolinga zanu khumi zapamwamba pa moyo, ndikupanga mndandanda wautali wa zomwe mumakonda kuchita. Ganizirani momwe mungadzipezere ndalama pochita zomwe mumakonda. Kamodzi pamwezi, onetsetsani kuti mukuwunikanso zomwe mwalemba. Mukayang'ana tsatanetsatane wamtengo wapataliwu, mudzapeza chithunzithunzi cha zokhumba zanu ndi zomwe mukufuna. Cholinga cha moyo wanu chidzamveka bwino kwa inu. Koma musalekere pamenepo, pitirizani kusonkhanitsa chidziwitso chochulukirapo. Muthanso kuwonjezera mawerengedwe ochokera ku mayeso anu a umunthu, mayeso anu a manambala, ndi mafotokozedwe a zomwe mukuwona m'maloto anu. Zonsezi zidzakuthandizani kukupatsani kumveka bwino komanso masomphenya m'moyo wanu.

Mukangodziwa cholinga chanu ndi chilakolako chanu, yambani tsopano; ngakhale zitakhala zazing'ono chabe ... chifukwa Chidziwitso ndiye mphunzitsi wamkulu kwambiriZomwe mwakumana nazo zidzakuuzani ngati ichi ndi cholinga cha moyo wanu. Kodi chikuyambitsa chilakolako chanu? Muyenera kuyesa cholinga chanu ndikuwona ngati chikukwanira! Ganizirani za ntchito yomwe mungadzipereke, kapena pulojekiti yapadera yomwe mungayambe nokha. Mukayamba tsopano, mukudzipatsa mwayi wokumana ndi cholinga chanu.

Pamapeto pa moyo wanu, mudzakumbukira zonse zomwe mwachita. Zinthu zabwino kwambiri zomwe mwakwanitsa komanso nthawi yanu yosangalala kwambiri. Mukufuna kunena kuti, “Inde, ndakhala moyo wabwino kwambiri. Ndikuyamikira zonse zomwe moyo wandipatsa.” Ndipo kuti muchite zimenezo, muyenera kuyamba tsopano. Tengani buku limenelo, yesani mayeso amenewo, ndikulemba malingaliro amenewo… chifukwa mukukula, ndipo muyenera kuvumbulutsa cholinga chanu chokhala ndi moyo wachimwemwe komanso wokhutiritsa.