Maitiro ePfungwa
Upenyu hunoita semuyedzo wenguva dzose wekuti tiri kuva ani. Dambudziko rega rega; chipingamupinyi chose… chakavakwa kuyedza magumo emweya wako. Sarudzo dzaunosarudza dzinoumba hunhu hwako uye dzinopesvedzera magumo ako. Kuwana kugona kwedu kwepamusoro kunoda kuti tiite sarudzo dzakakodzera. Uye nzira yakanakisisa yekuita zvisarudzo zvakanaka ndeyokuva nehana yakachena uye tsika dzinotungamirira zviito zvako. Mukukudziridza tsika, pane mitemo chaiyo yegamuchidzanwa yokutevera, asi inokosha zvikurusa ndiyo yaunogadza nokuda kwako umene. Mazano anotevera ndiwo anotungamira ekumisikidza yako wega mitemo yekuti unosarudza kurarama sei hupenyu hwako.
Mutemo weGoridhe: Itira Vamwe Zvaunoda Kuti Vamwe vakuitire
Unoona here kana ukanyemwerera kune mumwe munhu, kazhinji anozonyemwererawo kwauri? Ukabhabhadzira mumwe munhu kumusana sekunge wati 'hesi shamwari', unowanawo mazamu akawanda kumusana wako? Iyi inyika inowirirana. Unowana zvaunopa. Uye sezvavanotaura… Rudo runobereka Rudo, Ruvengo runobereka Ruvengo. Saka kana iwe uchida kuti nyika ikubate zviri nani, ita zviri nani kutanga. Taura zvakawanda mazvita Dzora zvaunokwereta, vhura mikova yakawanda kune vamwe, uye batsira vakwegura vakawanda kuyambuka mugwagwa. Zvinotonyanya kukosha, gara uine ruremekedzo, usamborwadzisa vamwe, uye gara uchitaura chokwadi. Aya ndiwo misimboti isingambobude muchimiro.
Unogona kudzivisa njodzi yakawanda nokutevedzera Mutemo wokuitira vamwe zvaunoda kuti vakuitirewo. Ndinorangarira humwe husiku, ndakagara paMcDonalds yekunze muSingapore's Orchard Road. Pandinonzwa mbama yetray ichirova pasi. Mamita matanhatu kubva kure, varume vaviri vakakura saizi yeCaucasian, pakona murume mupfupi, akasimba weHawaiian. Varume vose vari vatatu vava kuda kusvitsa makore 20. Zvinoita sekunge vakatadza kutenderana pamusuwo, saka vakadhumhana tireyi ndokudonha. Ndinonzwa vamwe vachitukana, vobva vatanga kusundidzirana. Ndinoverenga masaidhi, 1.. 2.. 3.. ndokubva vaita zvekubondera. Sezvinei, murume wokuHawaii anokwanisa kubata mutsipa womumwe murume wokuCaucasus, ndokumukwevera musoro wake kumucheto kwemarble kwechivako! Huma yake inotsemuka, uye ronda rinotanga kubuda ropa. Mumwe murume wokuCaucasus anoti, “Mira! Mira!
Handikwanise kutenda kuti zvese izvi zvakatanga pamusoro pekutadza kupa nzira pamusuwo, uye kusakumbira ruregerero nekukanganisa. Pane kudaro, vakasarudza kusundidzirana uye kutyisidzirana kuti varwe. Saka unoona, zvose zvaunopa, zvichadzokera kwauri zvakapetwa kagumi. “Unondisundidzira, ndinokusundidzira zvakanyanya. Iwe chibhakera, ndinokurovera panze.” Varume ava vakarega kuzvikudza kwavo kuchikanganisa kugadzirisa murunyararo. Vangadai vakangokumbirana ruregerero vachiti vaizobhadharana here?
Sezvaunoziva, iyi haisi nyaya isingawanzoitiki. Kazhinji, kungotarisa mumwe munhu kunogona kutanga kurwa. Kana kusunda munhu kubva mumutsetse. Kana kubvuta mumwe munhu nzvimbo yekupaka. Kana kusvuta. Kana kuvheneka mwenje wemota yako nekuda kwekushatirwa. Zvinorwadza kana tikarega hasha dzichitikurira. Sezvavanotaura muuzivi hwechiBuddha, hasha imhando yegehena. Ndizvo zvakaitawo makaro, godo, ruchiva, uye ruvengo. Zvose zvinokuvadza mwoyo nepfungwa. Kukanganisa rugare rwemukati izvo zvingaite kuti hupenyu hwako hunatse. Saka usati waita chimwe chinhu chaungademba, zvibvunze kuti, “Izvi ndizvo zvandingada kuunza muupenyu hwangu here?” Iyo nguva yaunoita chiitiko ichocho, unenge uchipa mvumo yekuti Universe iite mhedzisiro, iwedzere negumi, uye idzokere kwauri.
Kana unotarisira mumwe munhu pasi, vanhu gumi vachakutarisira pasi. Kana iwe ukabiridzira $500 kubva kune chembere, imwe nguva pasi pemugwagwa, iwe ucharasikirwa ne5000 $. Saizvozvo, kana iwe ukapa madhora mazana maviri kubva mukunaka kwemoyo wako, $2000 ichave iripo kuti iwe uwanezve. Zvichida kuburikidza nebhizinesi rako kana mune kamwe kamwe lottery windfall. Uyu ndiwo Mutemo wePasirose: Chese chauchaburitsa, chichadzoka kwauri, chakapetwa kagumi. Saka ita iyo Golden Rule: Itira vamwe zvaunoda kuti vakuitirewo iwe. Uye unogona kutarisira kuti hupenyu hukubata nenzira yaunoda kuti huite.