The Two Heads
Men have two heads. The big head, and the little head (the smaller purple one). The problem is, in the average male, although the purple head is smaller, it’s also more powerful than the big head. That’s why they say, “It has a mind of its own.”
Many times when I suggest that men should practice self-control, discipline, and restraint, I know it’s not easy. As a male, I know how powerful the little head can be. Why do you think psychologists say men have a sexual thought every 20 seconds? That’s the little head doing the thinking. And if you think with your little head, it’s going to lead you around by the ‘you know what’, and cause you to waste time, money, and energy. Resources which can be put to better use.
They say there are only two things that worry men. One is Money. And two are Women. I mean, what else is there to do in this world? I know guys who spend the larger portion of their day talking to their 150+ female contacts on messenger! And as you can imagine, they are never short of a date. Now would you call that success? To many men, I bet you that is all they desire – a life with enough money and women.
When you are starting out in life… sex and money really are the two primal desires. Most people can’t make enough money. Many people have never had the experience of getting laid. If you can achieve both of these primal desires, you’ll feel like a God!
The problem happens when we over-desire these primal desires… we end up wanting money so much, that we cheat, steal, and rob. We get jail! Or we desire sex so much… we masturbate incessantly, see prostitutes every 3 days, and hang out in bars and nightclubs trying to get laid! We drive our life into a downward spiral.
So, abstinence and cultivation is necessary — you need to overcome sexual primal urges; you need to be upright and make an honest living. How can you achieve this? What can you do to transform yourself?
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In contrast, there are also women who over-desire sex — otherwise known as nymphomaniacs. It’s very easy for a woman to get laid. You just stand in a bar and flirt with men. So, for these women, seeing a sex addiction counsellor may be of great benefit to you. The main goal is no more wild flings and crazy breakups, but instead, you can be married to a good husband who loves you for real.
So now you know the importance of using your big head (brain) to control your little head (penis or clitoris).
You can still enjoy sex — with a partner or by yourself — but watch out for cumming or ejaculation. If you climax or shoot out your semen, vital energy is lost. Thus, the way to have orgasmic pleasure while still retaining full body energy is by studying Taoist Sexual Qigong. The Multi-Orgasmic Man by Mantak Chia is the guidebook that men should use to develop the ability to orgasm while retaining vital energies — orgasm without ejaculation. The Multi-Orgasmic Woman is the book for women to achieve the same — enjoy sexual pleasure without losing vital energy.
Could You Fail In Life By Overindulging In Sex?
The other thing to watch for is the failure that comes from indulging in your desire… if you spend the greater part of your days hanging out at bars and nightclubs trying to get laid with a stranger, you are chasing an illusion of pleasure because sex is an empty act if you cannot love the person or the person does not love you.
Lancism: I advise all would-be successful men to release their grip on the little head, and start thinking with their big head. Ladies… you too.
Special Note: Talking about becoming good and making an honest living… it helps to follow the guidance of your religion. With the Gods imbuing you and guiding you to a good life, you will make better choices — bad habits will disappear and you will be led to good activities — subsequently, your beautiful life will unfold.