I-Philosophy yokuziphatha
Ubomi bubonakala bufana novavanyo oluqhubekayo lokuba ngubani na. Wonke umngeni; yonke imiqobo… eyakhelwe ukuvavanya imida yomphefumlo wakho. Ukhetho olwenzayo lubumba umlingiswa wakho kwaye luphembelele ikamva lakho. Ukuphumeza amandla ethu aphezulu kufuna ukuba senze ukhetho olufanelekileyo. Kwaye eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokwenza ukhetho olufanelekileyo kukuba nesazela esicocekileyo kunye nokuziphatha okuhle okukhokelela kwizenzo zakho. Ekuphuhliseni imilinganiselo yokuziphatha, kukho imigaqo yesithethe yokwenene ekufuneka ilandelwe, kodwa eyona ibalulekileyo yileyo uzibekele yona. Ezi zimvo zilandelayo zizikhokelo zokubeka imithetho yakho malunga nendlela okhetha ukuphila ngayo ubomi bakho.
Umthetho weGolide: Yenza kwabanye njengoko ungathanda ukuba abanye benze kuwe
Ngaba uyaqaphela ukuba uyancuma umntu, kusenokwenzeka ukuba naye uya kuncuma nawe? Ukuba umbambazela umntu emqolo ngokungathi uthi 'hey mfondini', nawe uya kumbamba emqolo? Eli lihlabathi elihambelanayo. Uyakufumana oko ukunikezelayo. Kwaye njengoko besitsho… Uthando luzala Uthando, intiyo izala intiyo. Ke ukuba ufuna ihlabathi likuphathe ngcono, liphathe ngcono kuqala. Thetha ngakumbi enkosi(s), more molweni(s), nixoleleni, kwaye ndiyaxolisa(ama). Buyisela into oyityalayo, vulela abanye iingcango ezininzi, kwaye uncede abantu abadala abangakumbi bawele isitalato. Okubaluleke ngakumbi, hlala uchubekile, ungabakhathazi abanye, kwaye uhlale uthetha inyani. Le yimigaqo esisiseko engazange iphume kwisitayile.
Unokuyiphepha intlekele ngokulandela uMthetho Omkhulu. Ndikhumbula ngobunye ubusuku, ndandihleli kwiMcDonalds yangaphandle eSingapore's Orchard Road. Xa ndisiva impama yetreyi ibetha phantsi. Iimitha ezintandathu kude, amadoda amabini amakhulu aseCaucasus, ikona indoda emfutshane, eqinile yaseHawaii. Omathathu la madoda akwiminyaka yawo yama-20. Kubonakala ngathi bohlulekile ukunikana indlela emnyango, bangqubeka yaza itreyi yawa. Ndiva ezinye izithuko, kwaye baqalisa ukutyhalana. Ndibala ukutyhala, 1.. 2.. 3.. emva koko baxambulisana. Ngandlel’ ithile, le ndoda yaseHawaii iyakwazi ukubamba intamo yenye indoda yaseCaucasus, ize ijiwulise intloko yayo kuqala kwincam yelitye elibhastile lesakhiwo! Ibunzi lakhe liyavuleka, kwaye inxeba liqalisa ukutsaza igazi. Enye indoda yaseCaucasus ithi, “Yeka!
Andikholelwa ukuba yonke le nto iqale phezu kokungaphumeleli emnyango, nokungaxolisi ngempazamo. Kunoko, bakhetha ukutyhalana nokoyikisana ukuze balwe. Ngoko uyabona, nantoni na oyinikelayo, iya kubuyela kuwe, inamandla ngokuphindwe kalishumi. “Undityhale, ndiza kukutyhala kakhulu. La madoda avumela ukuzingca kwawo kuphazamise indlela yoxolo. Ngebasuka nje bacela uxolo baze bahlawulele ukutya?
Njengoko usazi, oku akuqhelekanga. Ngokufuthi, ukujonga nje umntu othile kusenokubangela umlo. Okanye ukutyhala umntu emgceni. Okanye ukuhlutha indawo yokupaka yomnye umntu. Okanye ukutsala umsila. Okanye ukudanyazisa umtha ophakamileyo wemoto yakho ngenxa yokucaphuka. Kubuhlungu xa sivumela umsindo ukuba ube ngcono kuthi. Njengoko bathi kwifilosofi kaBuddha, umsindo luhlobo lwesihogo. Kukwanjalo nokubawa, umona, inkanuko, nentiyo. Zonke zityhefa intliziyo nengqondo. Ukuphazamisa uxolo lwangaphakathi oluya kwenza ubomi bakho bube mnandi. Ngoko ngaphambi kokuba wenze into onokuthi uzisole ngayo, zibuze, “Ngaba le yinto endifuna ukuyizisa ebomini bam?” Lo mzuzu usenzayo eso senzo, unika imvume yokuba i-Universe ithathe isiphumo, isiphindaphinde ngeshumi, kwaye isibuyisele kuwe.
Ukuba umjongela phantsi umntu, abanye abantu abalishumi baya kukujongela phantsi. Ukuba ukhohlisa i-$ 500 kwibhinqa elidala, ngexesha elithile phantsi kwendlela, uya kulahlekelwa yi-$ 5000. Ngokunjalo, ukuba unikela ngeedola ezingama-200 ngokulunga kwentliziyo yakho, iidola ezingama-2000 ziya kufumaneka ukuze ubuyise. Mhlawumbi ngeshishini lakho okanye ngequbuliso ilotho yomoya. Lo ngumthetho wendalo iphela: Nantoni na oyikhuphayo, iya kubuyela kuwe, iyomelele kalishumi. Ngoko yenza uMthetho weGolide: Yenza kwabanye njengoko uthanda ukuba abanye benze kuwe. Yaye unokulindela ukuba ubomi bukuphathe kanye ngendlela othanda ngayo.
