I-Philosophy yokuziphatha
Ubomi bubonakala bufana novavanyo oluqhubekayo lokuba ngubani na. Wonke umngeni; yonke imiqobo… eyakhelwe ukuvavanya imida yomphefumlo wakho. Ukhetho olwenzayo lubumba umlingiswa wakho kwaye luphembelele ikamva lakho. Ukuphumeza amandla ethu aphezulu kufuna ukuba senze ukhetho olufanelekileyo. Kwaye eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokwenza ukhetho olufanelekileyo kukuba nesazela esicocekileyo kunye nokuziphatha okuhle okukhokelela kwizenzo zakho. Ekuphuhliseni imilinganiselo yokuziphatha, kukho imigaqo yesithethe yokwenene ekufuneka ilandelwe, kodwa eyona ibalulekileyo yileyo uzibekele yona. Ezi zimvo zilandelayo zizikhokelo zokubeka imithetho yakho malunga nendlela okhetha ukuphila ngayo ubomi bakho.
Umthetho weGolide: Yenza kwabanye njengoko ungathanda ukuba abanye benze kuwe
Ngaba uyaqaphela ukuba uyancuma umntu, kusenokwenzeka ukuba naye uya kuncuma nawe? Ukuba umbambazela umntu emqolo ngokungathi uthi 'hey mfondini', nawe uya kumbamba emqolo? Eli lihlabathi elihambelanayo. Uyakufumana oko ukunikezelayo. Kwaye njengoko besitsho… Uthando luzala Uthando, intiyo izala intiyo. Ke ukuba ufuna ihlabathi likuphathe ngcono, liphathe ngcono kuqala. Thetha ngakumbi enkosi(s), more molweni(s), nixoleleni, kwaye ndiyaxolisa(ama). Buyisela into oyityalayo, vulela abanye iingcango ezininzi, kwaye uncede abantu abadala abangakumbi bawele isitalato. Okubaluleke ngakumbi, hlala uchubekile, ungabakhathazi abanye, kwaye uhlale uthetha inyani. Le yimigaqo esisiseko engazange iphume kwisitayile.
Unokuyiphepha intlekele ngokulandela uMthetho Omkhulu. Ndikhumbula ngobunye ubusuku, ndandihleli kwiMcDonalds yangaphandle eSingapore's Orchard Road. Xa ndisiva impama yetreyi ibetha phantsi. Iimitha ezintandathu kude, amadoda amabini amakhulu aseCaucasus, ikona indoda emfutshane, eqinile yaseHawaii. Omathathu la madoda akwiminyaka yawo yama-20. Kubonakala ngathi bohlulekile ukunikana indlela emnyango, bangqubeka yaza itreyi yawa. Ndiva ezinye izithuko, kwaye baqalisa ukutyhalana. Ndibala ukutyhala, 1.. 2.. 3.. emva koko baxambulisana. Ngandlel’ ithile, le ndoda yaseHawaii iyakwazi ukubamba intamo yenye indoda yaseCaucasus, ize ijiwulise intloko yayo kuqala kwincam yelitye elibhastile lesakhiwo! Ibunzi lakhe liyavuleka, kwaye inxeba liqalisa ukutsaza igazi. Enye indoda yaseCaucasus ithi, “Yeka!
Andikholelwa ukuba konke oku kuqale ngokungavumi ukunikezela emnyango, nokungaxolisi ngempazamo. Endaweni yoko, bakhetha ukutyhalana nokusongelana ukuze balwe. Ngoko ke uyabona, nantoni na oyinikayo, iya kubuya kuwe, inamandla aphindwe kalishumi . “Undityhala, ndiza kukutyhala ngakumbi. Undibethe ngenqindi, ndiza kukuwisa.” La madoda avumela ukuzithemba kwawo ukuba kuthintele isigqibo soxolo. Babenokuxolisa nje baze banikele ngokuhlawulela isidlo somnye nomnye?
Njengoko usazi, le ayisiyonto ingaqhelekanga. Amaxesha amaninzi, ukujonga nje umntu kunokubangela umlo. Okanye ukutyhala umntu aphume emgceni. Okanye ukuhlutha indawo yokupaka yomnye umntu. Okanye ukuhamba ngeenyawo. Okanye ukukhanyisa umphezulu wemoto yakho ngenxa yokucaphuka. Kubuhlungu xa sivumela umsindo wethu usilawule. Njengoko besitsho kwifilosofi yamaBhuda, umsindo luhlobo lwesihogo . Kunjalo nokubawa, umona, inkanuko, nentiyo. Zonke ezi zinto zityhefa intliziyo nengqondo. Ziphazamisa uxolo lwangaphakathi oluya kwenza ubomi bakho bube mnandi. Ngoko ke ngaphambi kokuba uthathe isenzo onokuthi uzisole ngaso, zibuze, “Ngaba yile nto ndingathanda ukuyizisa ebomini bam?” Xa usenza eso senzo, unika imvume kwiNdalo yonke ukuba ithathe isiphumo, isiphindaphinde ngeshumi, kwaye isibuyisele kuwe.
Ukuba umjongela phantsi umntu, abanye abantu abalishumi baya kukujongela phantsi. Ukuba ukhohlisa ixhegokazi i-$500, ngelinye ixesha elizayo, uya kulahlekelwa yi-$5000. Ngokufanayo, ukuba unikela nge-$200 ngenxa yobubele bentliziyo yakho, i-$2000 iya kufumaneka ukuze uyifumane kwakhona. Mhlawumbi ngeshishini lakho okanye ngequbuliso ilotto. Lo nguMthetho weNdalo yonke: Nantoni na oyinikelayo, iya kubuyela kuwe, inamandla aphindwe kalishumi. Ngoko ke yenza uMthetho weGolide: Yenza kwabanye njengoko ubungathanda ukuba abanye benze kuwe . Kwaye ungalindela ukuba ubomi buphathe ngendlela othanda ngayo.
