Umlingo Wokuphupha Omkhulu

Uma ungaphuphi umkhulu ngokwanele, ugxila ezintweni ezincane. Iqiniso elidabukisayo ngempilo ukuthi abantu abaphili ukuze bafeze amakhono abo aphelele. Isikhathi esiningi, isenzo sokusinda siyabadla. Ukuthola imali eyanele ukuze uphile impilo entofontofo kuthatha sonke isikhathi sabo. Futhi ekugcineni, abakayitholi injongo nokwaneliseka ekuphileni kwabo.

Yini engalungile lapha? Kwenzeka kanjani ukuba abantu abanomsebenzi, abahola kancane, nokuphila okuntofontofo, basengakwazi ukuthola ukuphila kwabo kungenanjongo nokubaluleka? Akufanele yini bajabule ngoba banemali engena; bangathenga benze abakufunayo?

Qaphela ukuthi ukuzuza impilo yokwaneliseka nenjabulo akukhona nje ukwenza imali eningi, ukujabulela izinto eziwubukhazikhazi, nokuba nesikhathi sokuphumula… lokho kuyingxenye yakho kuphela. Enye ingxenye yileyo abantu abaningi abayikhumbulayo: Imayelana nokuqaphela injongo yempilo yakho futhi wenze ngokuvumelana nayo nsuku zonke. Lokhu kukhiqiza intshiseko eyenza impilo yakho ibe yimpumelelo. Kukhulula inhliziyo yakho ezibophweni zomsebenzi ovamile ongasho lutho futhi kukunikeza ikusasa eliqhakazile ongalibheka phambili. Nsuku zonke kuzoba usuku olusha, lapho uvuka khona uthi, "Lolu usuku lokudlala!" Futhi uphume, uyokwenza amathani emali futhi udlale umdlalo wempilo. Kodwa kulokhu, uzwa inhloso yakho futhi yingakho ujabule.

Ngakho uyibona kanjani inhloso yakho? Wazi kanjani ukuthi ungaba yini?

Ngamunye wethu uhlukile. Ubuntu bethu, izifiso, kanye nobizo lwempilo kuhlukile. Angikwazi ukukutshela ukuthini yakho amandla aphelele. Igama elithi 'yakho' lisho ukuthi kufanele unqume ukuthi yini amandla aphelele kusho ukuthini kuwe – uphi ubizo lomphefumulo wakho? Sonke sinamandla esizalwa nawo noma ubukhulu obungaphumuli ngaphakathi kwethu... size sikudalule futhi sikukhulise. Qaphela ukuthi ngithe 'vumbulula', hhayi 'thola' ngoba uma uthola, kuyinto entsha futhi engaziwa. Kodwa uma wembula, kusuke kuqaphela amandla abelokhu ekhona.

Ukuze ukhulule amandla akho, kufanele ube nombono wokuthi kuyini. Udinga ukuba nesithombe esikhulu sempilo yakho sicatshangelwe ngokucacile engqondweni yakho. Lo mbono ukunika indawo kodwa awukubonisi ukuthi ungafika kanjani lapho. Kulungile. Sizodweba imephu yethu yomgwaqo kamuva. Ukukwazi nje ukubona lo mbono kakade kuyisinyathelo esikhulu sokufeza injongo yokuphila kwakho. Ngakho uwuthola kanjani umbono? Kunezindlela ezimbalwa, futhi ngizophakamisa ezinye ezingisebenzele. 

Izindlela Zokuthola Umbono 

I-Dreamtime yomuntu siqu

Thatha isikhathi sokuphumula, mhlawumbe kusihlwa noma ngempelasonto ukuze uthole isikhathi esikhululekile sokuzindla komuntu siqu. Dlala umculo opholile - uhlobo olukuphumuzayo futhi olukhulula ingqondo yakho. Hlala noma ulale, ukukhetha kwakho.

Ngenkathi uphumule, qala ngokukhumbula okwedlule. Qala usemncane. Ayeyini amaphupho akho useyingane? Ubukade ufuna ukuba yini? Khumbula lokho.

Manje, thuthukela empilweni yakho njengoba yenzeka kuze kube manje. Ukuqaphela ukuthi amaphupho akho ashintshe kanjani. Ngenkathi wenza kanjalo, zizwela ngenhliziyo yakho iphupho elikugqugquzela kakhulu futhi likugcwalise ngokumangala. Njengokungathi uzothi, “Kuhle lokho noma kuyamangalisa!” Leli phupho liwubizo olungase lube khona.

Gcina Irekhodi

Inkumbulo iyahlaneka ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Kodwa ungakwazi ukubona ukuphila kwakho ngombono oqondile uma ugcina irekhodi lakho. Leli rekhodi libalulekile ukuze wazi isithombe esikhulu sempilo yakho njengoba sivela nsuku zonke. Qala ijenali yomuntu siqu. Bhala phansi imicabango yakho ngaphambi kokulala. Qaphela okuhambe kahle namuhla, lokho okulindele kusasa, nalokho ofisa ukuphupha ngakho kusihlwa. Ngokuqoqa kancane kancane imicabango yakho engaphakathi, ungakwazi ukulandelela intuthuko yakho empilweni, ubone ukuthi kukhona yini izinguquko ezibalulekile ezenzekile futhi uma kunjalo, ezinhle noma ezimbi?

Thatha izithombe zabangani bakho, izindawo ozivakashelayo, wena ngokwakho ngokusemandleni akho, njalo njalo. Izithombe zibuyisa izinkumbulo ezicacile futhi zingamarekhodi anembile empilo yakho. Uma usebenzisa ikhamera yedijithali, ungase ufune ukuqala ijenali kukhompyutha yakho. Bese ungakwazi ukwengeza izithombe, amavidiyo, nomsindo kujenali yakho. Ungakwazi futhi ukuphrinta ijenali yakho eyakheke kahle ukuze wabelane ngayo nabangani, uyishicilele ku-inthanethi, noma uyiguqule ibe yisikhumbuzo sencwadi noma i-autobiography.

Yenza Ukuhlaziywa Kwezibalo

Ngokumangalisayo, ukubhula ngezinombolo kuwumthombo omuhle wokuqonda lapho kuziwa ekugcwaliseni injongo yakho yokuphila. Izibalo zendlela yokuzalwa, inombolo yesiphetho, nokuhlaziywa kwegama kungase kukutholele injongo obuyilahlile, kodwa ekujuleni kwenhliziyo yakho, eyaziwa impilo yakho yonke. Ungase uzithole uthi, “Hey lokho kuyiqiniso… kuyathakazelisa!”

Yenza Ukuhlolwa Kobuntu

Thatha ukuhlolwa kwe-MBTI (Isikhombi Sohlobo lwe-Myers-Briggs). Ungathola izivivinyo zamahhala ku-inthanethi. Bese uthola le ncwadi: “Ikhodi ye-Millionaire – 16 Paths To Wealth Building”, ka-Paul B. Farrell. Ibala umuntu ngamunye kwabangu-16 MBTI, nokuthi uhlobo ngalunye lomuntu luzakhele kanjani ingcebo lusebenzisa izici zalo ezihlukile. Kuhlole!

Njengoba uhlola lezi zindlela, ngiphakamisa ukuthi ugcine a isitatimende senhloso yempilo. Lokhu kungase kube ingxenye kujenali yakho, noma ifayela ngokwalo. Kuyo, bhala phansi futhi uhlanganise konke ngenjongo yokuphila kwakho. Zama ukubhala isitatimende sombono. Bhala amagoli akho aphezulu ayishumi, bese udala uhlu olude lwalokho okujabulela ukukwenza. Cabanga ukuthi ungaziphilisa kanjani ngokwenza lokho okujabulelayo. Kanye ngenyanga, kwenze umgomo wakho ukubukeza lokho okubhalile. Njengoba ubheka le mininingwane eyigugu, uzothola umbono wezifiso nezifiso zakho. Inhloso yempilo yakho izocaca kuwena. Kodwa ungagcini lapho, qhubeka uqoqa imininingwane eyengeziwe. Ungakwazi futhi ukwengeza ukufundwa okuvela ekuhlolweni kwakho kobuntu, ukuhlolwa kwakho kwezinombolo, nezincazelo zalokho okubonayo emaphusheni akho. Konke kuzokusiza ukukulethela ukucaca okukhulu nombono empilweni yakho.

Uma usunombono wokuthi inhloso yakho nothando lwakho kungaba yini, luqale manje; noma ngabe kuncane ... ngoba isipiliyoni uthisha omkhulu kunabo bonke. Okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho kuzokutshela ukuthi lena injongo yokuphila kwakho yini. Ingabe ivusa inkanuko kuwe? Udinga ukuzama inhloso yakho futhi ubone ukuthi iyahambisana yini! Cabanga ngomsebenzi ongavolontiya kuwo, noma iphrojekthi ekhethekile ongaqala uwedwa. Ngokuyiqala manje, uzinika ithuba lokuzwa ukuphila inhloso yakho.

Ekupheleni kwempilo yakho, uzobheka emuva kukho konke okwenzile. Izimpumelelo zakho ezinkulu kanye nezikhathi zakho ezimnandi kakhulu. Ufuna ukwazi ukuthi, "Yebo, ngiphile impilo enhle. Ngibonga ngakho konke ukuphila engikunikeze kona." Futhi ukwenza lokho, udinga ukuqala manje. Thola leyo jenali, yenza lezo zivivinyo, bese ubhala phansi leyo micabango… ngoba usukhulile, futhi udinga ukudalula injongo yakho ukuze uphile impilo ejabulisayo, eyanelisayo.